But if you answer no- then DO NOT pick up the phone, DO NOT go and see him DO NOT contact him. Let him stew in his own juices and make him realise that he can't control you and he DOESN'T have the right to demand constant pleading and apologies from you. You are a person dammit, not a punching bag..
only way to tell is have her turn around.
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Anyway, this is not healthy and will likely continue in the future if you let things as they are..
The Northern version is just don't be a dick......
I know i will get crap from everyone here but this HP is terrible.
my kinda girl.
So true. I don't want to give up on her only to regret it. I really do think we can build something long term, and if I jump ship I may end up thinking "if only I stayed." For now, I will continue dating her until one of us feels it's no longer working out..
i wish she had short hair.
Fun, crazy and adventurous UK girl now living in..
Wow very nice.
A pretty lady with awesome legs!.
Make clear who you are and what you want..
I've been perfectly happy in my relationship for the past 9 months ive been dating my boyfriend but recently his anger issues and other things that he's been doing are making me question his integrity as a person. I am in college and get busy sometimes and the other night went to study at one of my best friends houses (who happens to be male) and he was texting me and got mad because I wasn't responding right away. He knows this guy is an extremely good friend of mine and I told him I was studying but I failed to mention it was at his house. He later got upset because of that and the next day treated me coldly while he was at work. He said he was busy but in the morning told me he was upset over what happened last night. I told him what had happened and I was just studying and asked why he's getting so upset. And he said hes tired of finding out at later points that I'm doing something else than I say I am. I asked him why hes never mentioned that before and he just gets all pissy saying he's done with this argument and I already made my excuses about last night and the issue was resolved. But he continued to treat me coldly, replying sarcastically to my messages and being just downright rude. The other week I found out that he was in communication with his ex still and one night while he was drunk at 5 am tried to hang out with her. He apologized and blamed it on the alcohol, said he would never act on it and he regretted it the second he saw those messages in the morning, and I forgave him, but that was strike 1 for me. Now the way he talked to me today is making realize that he is not a very nice man when he gets upset and I was very hurt by his comments and attitude. I don't need to take that from anybody he upset me so much that I cried in my room instead of focus on my school work which is what I needed to do that day. This was sort of strike 2. I love him because we have gone through many wonderful moments and he's been wonderful to me for 9 whole months but recently I am seeing a different side to him. The strange thing is that he pulled this double personality thing on me and as soon as I confronted him about it he softened up and I told him how his attitude hurt me and he apologized. But there was something very wrong in the way he handled the situation. Something I have seen him do with others but never with me. We don't really fight, but thats because I'm a very agreeable person and don't care about many things, he on the other hand believes he is always right. Doesn't give anyone else a change. I don't really know how to deal with this because I don't want to throw away 9 whole months of a happy relationship, but I'm not so sure I want to be with somebody like that. I used to think of him as amazing, cute, with a lot of love and endearment. After the other day I just don't know...I'm kind of scared my perception of him has changed forever.... what do you guys think? Are these deal breakers or am I being sensitive? Keep in mind that obviously at the beginning of a relationship I would run for the hills, but its been 9 long months of wonderful, amazing times and now these two things happened so close together? I would think that maybe he's lost interest or something except after both incidents he apologized deeply and has acted extra sweet to make up for it...but it doesn't really make up for it does it?.
I am not going to argue one way or the other for you, but you will have to weigh the pros and cons together. The reasons that you say your BF give do not seem to be good enough IMO..
If you are too shy to do that right away, start by dropping hints about things you would like to do ( "I really want to see that movie!" "Oh I've always wanted to go to that restaurant, have you been?") that way you give him an easy opening to ask you out..
At any rate, sometimes I think my friend just idolizes white women himself and puts them on a pedestal, and he's transferring his own feelings onto what other men must think/feel..
Soooo.. First and foremost, I'm looking to date locally, not for an online romance. If you contact me from outside the metro area, I will not respon..
There are a lot of little things about a person that can bug you. But you have to look past them and realize that. COntrary to popular believe I think we are being taught intolerance rather than tolerance - in that it's all about me, if it's not perfect change it, the grass is greener, etc..
i agree.. there is something about #2...