Also he told me this, which made me understand him at some point: "I've been sitting with this guy and my girlfriend hundred of times, having coffee, talking, watching movies. I even got along well with him. And all this time I was being nice to the guy that used tu f*ck my girlfriend. I feel humiliated.".
You can't change anything about this. You either trust your bf or you don't. If he's going to cheat, he's going to cheat...either at home or at work or wherever..
LOL Double pain. Thats true You might have the "urge" to do it but won't if your alone but if you have your road dog next to you you more inclined lol..
If they're that way when seeking a mate, chances are, if they ever get married.....they're that way, too..
nice bod but wtf is up with the face :.
I am so lost about how mens' minds work, so are these just gestures of a very nice friendly guy to his pal, or are they signs of "I see this girl as a GIRL. I like her." ? Or am I so into this guy I am just analyzing every touch and action? I mean, I certainly don't MIND him doing these things...not at all!!.
Well, everyone else was. ;).
...she started to flirt but right away I.... blue her off she saw that I was not paying attention so she stopped.
she is smokin. So amazingly cute (y).
It seems that I was waiting for HIM to set "the pace" of the relationship, when he on the other hand was looking to ME to set the pace. He revealed how much he likes me, and that he felt in a way that he was "the good for now" person, so he was waiting for me to figure out what I wanted. We have found that both of us were scared to "scare" the other off with pushing more intamacy so we were waiting for the other to ask for it. It does suck that I had to be the person to bring this up first, I really wanted him to do it, but the results are the same I suppose..
Just before these messages,I asked her if she would like to come out with me at the weekend and I said I wanted to show my friends how pretty a girl could be..
Originally Posted by Restored24.
The world decided otherwise.
All I know is, that if I have a good woman who makes me happy, Im not interested in an "upgrade"..
Isn't that truth! I don't understand how they were brainwashed in the first place other than the sex..
GET OUT, while you can. I know you love him, but my god you'll be so much more hurt in the longrun, I promise you. Maybe give him one more chance - a really honest talk. If you're still not comfortable, then leave. Don't give him chance after chance like I did with my ex. I literally thought my heart would never heal..
My theory as to why many relationships end of sexless.....
i like em chunky.