This is a very well written post, and I think you hit the nail on the head. A lot of males and females are so obsessed? with finding the "visual ideal" that they have developed in their mind (due to media, society's expectations, fantasy, friends opinions, porn, to impress family?) that they tend to chase that image with blinders on. To which as you pointed out is unavailable most of the time regardless of how you change yourself to what you think would fit their standards..
Sorry to be harsh...but I've been there and learned. If she won't even call to say hi or something, then she's not interested in you and has no guts to tell you. She's more hoping you get fed up and go away..
as i have said before - just want to thank the approvers for all they do !!!!.
34 year old father of two, recently separated from a 13 year relationship..looking for something real...
more #149431 #149546 #149107 #149017 #148978 #148980 #148981.
If you agree to a break, either set some rules in place or agree that anything goes. Rules may be broken, though. But, typical rules would include not dating anyone else and certainly not having sex with anyone else. Most breaks initiated by women are for the purpose of having sex with others, so be aware of this. IMO, at your ages it would be best to simply break up and do whatever you want - get back together later after you BOTH have more life experience and a better idea of what you want in life and in a mate..
Hot--perfect from head to toe.
cyan turquoise lightblue tshirt midriff hoh black leggings tights yogapants gap (omg) mound longhair brunette smile teeth red brick wall outside bracelet skinny zoom.
Someone's ego got bruised..
I wanted to know how long he'd be out of town. Also would like to know why you two didn't see each other as planned before he left. Well, not so much why, but reasons given--which might be two different things entirely..
Yes you did, I apologise. I felt it was important to focus on though..
Seriously, stop being such a prick, one day you're really going to hurt her..
even better on of her #52179.
haha look at 1's arm.
Hi..a visiting writer, I am looking for companionship - this is not a euphemism. Company, conversation, a warm laugh..that's a lot. I am a good listener, a gentleman..