I've seen that look in the eyes before and there's nothing playful or harmless about it. If he had his back turned and she had a shoe, hair dryer, or wine glass in her hand, the results wouldn't look so harmless. It's the intent, not the end result, and the intent in that clip is unmistakeable. I don't really blame the talking heads for making a deal of it as their young audience needs to hear that message loud and clear, even if it's overdone. They are just rating whores themselves, after all, which is fine, it's the way they make a living..