So Friday night rolls around and we go out. We all get pretty smashed. I'm sort of annoyed at these friends of my girlfriend, but whatever, I'm pretty easy going and I deal with it...mostly by drinking more. Whatever. We leave the bar and go back to my girlfriend's house to have a couple more beers. They follow us. We're there, and my girlfriend and I finish off our first beers. I'm the couch with my girlfriend, her guy friend is on the floor and his wife is in an easy chair. I get up to use the bathroom and to grab a couple more beers. After I used the bathroom I went into the kitchen to grab the beers. When I got into the kitchen this guy's wife was in there being all chatty with me (which is odd because it was obvious that she and I had nothing in common and probably didn't like each other). Well, as I went to leave the kitchen she sort of blocks my egress. I was sort of pissed, and I pushed past her. I walked into the living room and there on the couch is her husband making out with my drunk to the point of almost passed out girlfriend..
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I do like the other parts of it. I always liked hanging out with her, and we have been doing that more now. I like holding hands and kissing (if it sounds like this is more than just friends with benefits, it seems like that to me too), but I want more of course and I worry if something doesn't work soon I will lose my chance. What is the matter with me? And how can I make sure she doesn't give up on this until the problem is solved?.
I know that, no matter what we suggest, advise, etc... you won't leave him.. cause you're too weak (your words) to leave him.. you will learn to suffer in silence until you can't take it anymore... and THEN...you might have to suffer along with a few kids....
Your girlfriend is on a dating site because, for some reason or another, she ISN'T happy with you. That's not to say it's your fault, but happy campers do not seek out "friends" on dating websites. Given her history, do you really believe that? I hope not..
You are free of this emotionally draining sycophant and it's not your fault at all! You tried, nothing was ever good enough and this is because SHE IS NOT A HAPPY, HEALTHY AND WHOLE INDIVIDUAL! Neither are you! Get sober, go to AA meetings and read your butt off about self-improvement, red flags etc.!.
Very attractive. Curious to see what she would look like without all the make-up.
the sad reality is that they are facing a dating culture that is actively working against them because of the need for instant gratification. They are encountering a dating culture that is more hostile more superficial and less conducive to forming stable successful relationships than it has ever been. A lot of gals have a dating style that is keeping them single and keeping them from getting to know great guys and vice versa. They are jumping the gun and nexting guys way too fast because of the misguided belief in instant spark..
That doesn't have to be the case with your ex. But if he gets women interested, I would put the focus on finding out if there is something he does or doesn't do that causes the women to walk away..
So do you think maybe I should say "Thanks for letting me stay over" Saturday morning? OR does it seem sarcastic because she would be thinking "I never *let* you stayed over.".
lovely. just perfect.
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My status: "Happily Single" for the first time in my life. I have been single before, but wasn't all that happy about it. I am now. LOL I used to think I was broken or something wrong with me if I couldn't be in a relationship. I really couldn't care less right now..