the daughter, on the other hand, not so much i'll bet..
Read your other responses. Ok - the problem is your girlfriend's. She's lived on her own before. She doesn't NEED to live with her parents. She could live alone, with friends, or with you - if she chose to. Problem is - her relationship with her mother takes priority over the one between you two. I have a gf in same situation - he is very attached to his mom. As she told him - he's not available to her to have a serious committed relationship - because he's so committed to someone else - his mom..
If you are already in NC then don't contact him at all. But when he contacts you, be very friendly, but tell him that you're busy. Make him sweat. Make him think about you. If you don't want to play that game, you only have two options left: to forget about him altogether or to accept the humiliating waiting..